Saturday, October 18, 2008
Okay, I'll go back now
All my pictures are now loaded here: http://kellylmeyer.shutterfly.com/
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Shiny things
Back to the surprise. I am having a lazy day today, cleaning and packing halfheartedly. It is a little after 2:00 (Saturday) and I have just finished showering and getting dressed. I hear a knock at my door, even though our dorm is deserted (the other two students from MSU are at the beach in Pohang today). It is one of my female students from the beginning English class. Her hometown is Ulsan, which is not a short trip away, and she took the bus back here to Hayang today to bring me a present before I leave. She didn’t even know which room I was in, so she was knocking on every door in this hallway until she finally came to mine.
She made me what is now the most beautiful pair of earrings I own. She enclosed a very thoughtful (and long) note in English. She says, in part, “This earring is alike your eyes (color),” and “Your smile sound is so attractive.” This was a hot, hot, long trip for her. I had to fight back crying because I didn’t want her to think something was wrong, but this was such a wonderful thing to end my time here. She could only stay about 10 minutes before having to leave to catch the bus back home. Of course now I might be crying.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Messages from students
Hi~ My name is Cha Won Tae.
I’m from Busan in South korea.
I’m a Kelly English class student.
Kelly is very very kindly teacher.
We are got a lot of knowledge thing.
I’m very appreciative my teacher.
I rememver my teacher Kelly.
I’m missing her.
Thank you.
From; Korean student cha won tae
To; Kelly’s papa&mama
Hello…^^ my name is Kim Soo Un…. Nick name is lion…
I learned to Kelly lots of thins during this summer… Korea is summer now.
I wonder if there whether… cold? Hot?
Although I can’t speak English very well, I learned
So I think Kelly is awesome teacher…
^^ see you later…
안녕하세요
저는 켈리 수업을 들었던 학생입니다
이렇게 편지 쓸 기회를 가지게 되어 영광입니다.
이 글을 읽을 수 있을지 모르나 한국사람이 썼다는 걸 보여주기 위해서..
나중에 한국에 한번 방문하세요
뵙고 싶습니다.
켈리선생님은 정말 좋은 선생님이였고 잊지 못할 거예요.
켈리선생님 부모님
안녕히계세요.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Fan Death: silent, deadly, illogical
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Beatles update
Friday, July 11, 2008
The non-native English-speaking students are getting restless!
So I don't blame them for being so restless right now (the end of the 3rd week out of 4 weeks). It's been really hard to keep them interested. The first week all I had to do was open up my mouth and say anything, and they would think it was fascinating. Well, I think my novelty has worn off. But that's okay.
They were sick of writing haiku and poetry in general, which I understand, so this week I brought in Beatles songs and sheets of the lyrics so we could study them (kind of like poetry, right?). They love this. The lyrics are simple enough for them to understand, except for a word here and there, the tunes are catchy, and they all seem to find something to identify with. They particularly love "Hey Jude." This afternoon they each present individually what they wrote about their favorite Beatles songs. I taught them some good words, phrases, and sentence constructions that will help them write about music, and what I've seen so far is pretty impressive. One girl who chose the song "Blackbird" wanted me to help her talk about it's hopefulness...
The idea for this came when I asked them to write suggestions for me for a new class project. They almost all wrote, "Do American pop songs." I couldn't quite stomach the idea of doing new pop songs, but old ones I can do.
I even drew a submarine on the white board when we did "Yellow Submarine" because I guess it's not a standard English vocabulary word students learn. Wasn't quite this fancy, but it did the trick.
Another thing that surprised me about this new project is that they love to sing out loud in class. So after reading the lyrics first, we all ended up singing every song together, which was incredibly fun. Another one of the glow-y teacher moments that you can't plan for, predict, or exactly explain afterward.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Fear-free dental! Come to Korea!
I went with Rachel for her appointment on Saturday because she had just had a wisdom tooth removed and was getting a follow-up check. This tooth had been bothering me and was pushing through more and more every day it seemed like, so the dentist, who speaks decent English, took a look at it for me. By just shining a light in my mouth, she could see the problem.
They did an x-ray to see it in more detail. For those of you who go to the dentist regularly and have those painful and time-consuming picture x-rays taken where you have to bite on the thing that cuts into your mouth... There is a better way! Maybe they have this technology in the U.S. and I'm just not going to the right dentist. But all I had to do here was stand up in front of this thing, bite down (comfortably), and it scanned back and forth to make a digital image of my teeth.
And wow! There it was, this wayward tooth, very obviously in a bad, bad spot. So this morning I got my shots of novocaine and she went to work on it. The drilling and wrenching noises were terrible, but it took all of about 10 minutes. They had to cut the tooth into 4 big pieces and then down even smaller to get it all out.
Oh yes, I sound brave through all this, but I was terrified. When they were doing the initial drilling, I could feel it hitting a nerve ending, so I had to communicate with some squeaks, but then they gave me a little more anesthesia. It was bleeding quite a bit (she said hemorrhaging, but I don't think it was quite so bad), so they had to sew it up with stitches, but I get those checked out tomorrow and then taken out within a week.
I'm a little tired, but not in too terribly much pain at the moment. A little sore, of course, but no visible swelling. Hopefully when the numbness wears off I won't be crying for my mom too much! It was a little traumatic to be so far away, in an room full of a foreign language, without my family even knowing what was happening.
Either way, this dentist is my hero. She was so quick, gentle, and reassuring. She started me on a short course of antibiotics on Saturday, so I shouldn't have any problems with infection. Rachel and I asked her how much everything would cost, and she basically just kept saying, "No. You are Rachel's friend." I guess Rachel sends her a lot of referral business and has good insurance herself that pays for her dental work. Even though at most, without insurance, it would have cost the equivalent of $100.
I'm pretty amazed. If she won't take money from me, I don't think there's quite any way I can repay her for being so helpful. Of course, because of her amazing skills, I was wondering about the other 3 wisdom teeth, but she said they are not through the gum enough yet for her to take care of. But that will need to be done soon after I get home because the bottom one on the right is almost as horizontal as this one was. Boy do I dread going to the dentist in America now. I think I need a new one who actually looks at the x-rays!
Did I mention that I didn't even have to make an appointment to have this done and I waited barely 10 minutes to start the surgery? They even covered my eyes so I didn't have to see the tools coming at me and gave me a blanket for comfort.
Okay, I'll stop bragging. Feel free to defend your own American dentist. But I think they should all be sent to Korea before being allowed to poke and prod our mouths.
Next day update: Definitely swollen.
The following day: Still swollen but hopeful.
A fishy day with a fantastic ending
Believe me, if the pictures don't seem like anything all that exciting, all of your jaws would have been falling open with every bend in the hiking path. Just immense, immense, beautiful, and overwhelming. You can feel the age of everything and know that for thousands of years, people have been standing here awestruck, unable to say or do anything that does the sight justice.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Tidbits
Saturday night, Rachel, her husband Andrew, and I drove to the east coast. After dinner we sat on the beach (across the street from our hotel), playing in the sand and watching people light off fireworks.
Sunday includes an afternoon at the beach. I don't really know what to say about beach culture here. I guess there really is none. You wear whatever you want, except, apparently, for real bathing suits. I saw all manner of dress, from children in underwear to men in button-up dress shirts. And I mean in the water, swimming, playing, not just sitting on the beach. This was the hottest day in Korea so far since I've been here, but there were people in the water with jackets, pants, even hooded sweatshirts.
Also, lots of people sit at the water's edge or barely in the water wearing life jackets. You never know... There may be a fire or some other emergency covering the whole beach, in which case you would reasonably have to escape into the water, life jacket coming in mighty handy.
Friday, July 4, 2008
My Poets
Can love be paid in installments?
I mean, if possible, I'd like to live with you
in 2000-year installment plan.
****
His mind: "I like her.
She is so hot to me.
She approached like a wind."
Her mind: "I hate him.
He is so oily to me.
I felt him like a butter."
****
Man love Jane.
She loves another man.
The sad one sided love.
****
My mother told me
"You're my valuable son
but ... you look like anchovy"
****
I envy that girl
I want to meet mate quickly
But I must study
****
Under the blue sky
We have best time in my car
So, where are my shoes?
****
On the blue ocean
My great villa is sailing.
Mine's bigger than yours!
****
I stand on the road
I want to leave my footprints
In the fresh green world
****
People love money
So they cut wood for money
A forest destroy
****
It smells wonderful.
I'm falling in love with it.
I love you, coffee.
****
And a group poem put together for a class activity:
When I met you,
You came to me, coolly.
When I saw you,
You looked like shiny jewelry.
When I kissed you,
I felt you smelled so sweetly.
When I dropped you,
Opps! Oh my Baskin Robbins!
****
And some reactions when I asked them to write about writing poetry:
"This work is really gratifying and worthwhile. I have not labored in vain."
"I don't like poetry so I hate writing poetry absolutely. Poetry is too difficult to me. I learned America and Britain poetry last semester. At that time, I was so hard. I learned Haiku. I think that Haiku is very interesting. I was so good because I studied with American native teacher. Although poetry is too hard, I love this class! :) Thank you for your teaching! :)"
"I don't like writing poetry. Because I never experience write poetry. I haven't a taste for literature. But I like rhyme of music. Thank you for Kelly."
"Professor Kelly: I like this time. I can think a lot of idea. When I presented my poetry, I'm so brave. I look like I'll become a poet. I read only Korean poetries but now I'm going to see American poetries. It's fresh."
"I like about writing poetry because my mind become peaceful."
"I love music. Music sameness poetry. I love poetry. I'm troublesome choose words and grammar is difficult, the rules of spelling, but I love poetry. Thank you my poetry teacher."
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Prizes for your eyes!
I just ate some yummy comfort food for lunch. The lady at our little Italian place made me some mashed potatoes with bacon in it and lots of cheese. Good stuff. Now I might need a potato nap. And yes, if you read my previous entry and are wondering, it did help me somewhat recover from my homesickness. Here are a few more pictures I wanted to share.
A happy Korean cowboy! (Not really. I think this is a traditional Korean hat that only looks something like a cowboy hat. But he is happy to see you!)
A picture of Rachel and me at the entrance to one of the most majestic of the dwellings at the traditional village.
And finally, the sign that is posted along the sidewalk on the way up to campus.
Feelings and Stuff
But homesick, that's a different thing. I think there is just such a stark contrast between when I am with my students during the day and when I get back to my room in the evening. They are so lively, warm, energetic, and appreciative of me. Today they asked me what I want to do in life when I'm done with school, so I told them I want to be a full-time literature professor. They said, "You will do well. We support you. We are your fan club!" These students are incredibly uplifting. Even though I know they truly appreciate me and what I try to teach them, I know I get so much more from them than they could possibly get from me.
So when I am not with them, especially on this day for some reason, I feel quite keenly their absence.
I think I am also starting to grow sick of the clothes and items I have brought from home, wishing for other things in my closet. For example, I didn't bring a long-sleeved t-shirt or sweatshirt of any kind. Even in the summer, I like to curl up in the air conditioning in cozy clothes. It still gets cool here in the evenings, so I am thinking about how much I wish I had a familiar sweatshirt from back home.
I've also noticed how easily the male TAs who are here with me from MSU are able to fill their down time with playing soccer. Sports are sports in any language, so they have been playing soccer or jokgu (the name for the tennis/soccer/volleyball fusion sport that I finally remembered to ask my students the name of) every night after class.
I think I also feel like I can't show any vulnerability when I'm here. The students are so happy, so I try to reflect this same attitude back at them.
Alright, enough feeling sorry for myself.
Yesterday one of the students in the program told me, "You are the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life." You can't laugh at that serious face and such an openhearted compliment. I haven't had this student in class yet, so I guess he is a from-a-distance admirer. I know it sounds like the most ambitious pick-up line of all time, but I can't imagine this student has any intention of convincing me to stay in Korea forever and marry him. But, I'm sure he'd be open to the idea.
Thanks, Blog. I feel better now.
And something that is comforting, finding the bookmarks my sisters leave behind in the books we pass between us: a bright pink Post-it note, a Disney World ticket stub, an expired $10 off coupon from Target...
Monday, June 30, 2008
More pictures, less talk
First we visited Andong Dam, which had amazing views of the Nakong River. Then we walked up (almost straight up) through the Andong Folk Village, which often serves as a set for television and movie productions that need a traditional Korean setting, approximately from the early 1700s. It was amazing to see all the structures, especially what would have been considered a kingly dwelling.
The drive back to Hayang was beautiful. During that short time period of dusk, all I could see were mountains. On the right they were reflected in the water of a rice paddy, and on the left they were giving off smoke and looking like volcanoes. No picture, but I'm not sure it would have done this view justice anyway.
On getting back to campus, this is my attempt to capture the enchanting little forest near my pond...
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Tranquil ponds... and sea monsters
Despite the sea monsters... such a beautiful campus.
Food!
I have also now eaten twice with my students in the campus cafeteria for dinner. It is pretty notorious for being not so good, but it's free, so I don't mind too much. Lots of sticky white rice and other things that I have to ask my students about ("What is this?"). They think I am a very slow eater with my chopsticks, mainly because I can only pick up one or two small pieces of food at a time. Also because I hesitate when I don't know what something is!
Water is also an interesting experience here. They don't drink large glasses of water with a meal; usually, if at all, it's just a shot glass sized glass of water. They don't drink tap water because it has too much iron in it or something (even though it just tastes like Huron water to me), so there are water machines with purified hot and cold everywhere (and the hot is hot enough for tea, even by Mom's standards, I think!). Anyways, at the cafeteria they have this long "water bar" with a whole row of water spigots and the little shot glasses, so after eating, students go there and take their shot of water. It seems they think it's a little strange that we waste time (and stomach space) drinking liquids during a meal.
Which leads me to another habit: Everyone brings their toothbrushes to school and brushes their teeth in the bathrooms right before class begins. Even the English department secretary is brushing her teeth in her office when she gets to work. Joel asked one of his students, "Don't you have sinks at your dorm?" and the reply was basically equivalent to a "duh," but no explanation for this ritual. I guess I am just too messy when I brush my teeth to participate in it publicly.
Well, that is off topic, so I will stop for now. Some of us from MSU are meeting a few students who are planning to go to the States for a study abroad and want to practice their English conversation. It's so nice being helpful and appreciated just for speaking a language you were practically born speaking (thanks, Mom and Dad).
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Catch the fever
Each of us from MSU are responsible for 3 of our own classes, each 1 hour long: Project English I, Project English II, and Tutorial. Each of our Project English classes has a theme, mine being poetry, and we do projects with the class according to our theme. These are their "fun" classes because their other courses (they go to class 5 days of the week from 9 am to 8 pm, with 1 hour for lunch and 1 hour for dinner) are very difficult and regimented.
I have been teaching them haiku, which they love because it has a specific number of syllables. In our project, we find a photograph and then write a haiku about it. We practiced this as a class during our Project English class. Then for tutorial, which is basically like study hall or homeroom for them, instead of doing their homework, they wanted to get to know me. So they take turns asking me questions about myself, what I like to do, and where I'm from, which is a good way for them to practice their English.
They asked me where I have traveled, so I told them some places, and then they asked if I have any pictures to show them. I showed them a picture of Laura, Erin, and me in Ireland last summer, and they gasped because they say we are so pretty! Then I showed them a scenic picture I had taken, and they asked if they could write a haiku for me about it. So we composed this in English, then they also wrote it in Korean for me, signed their names, and wrote "Thank you, Teacher." And this was on the first day of class. So there is an amazing amount of eagerness and gratitude from the students that I've never experienced before from a whole class.
I'm still incredibly nervous when teaching, but it is so much fun. I am nervous because I want them to learn from me, but no matter what we do in class, they are so appreciative. There is lots of spontaneous clapping, and everyone says thank you as they leave the room at the end of class. Having spent a few days with them now, they are such individual personalities! They are starting to remind me of people back home.
Other questions that I was asked on the first day of tutorial:
"Do you have a boyfriend?" (I get asked this very often, they are quite curious and usually very blunt). When I say no, they all gasp.
Next question: "How do you like Korean men?" To which I say, "They are very polite."
And then: "Would you marry a Korean man?" So I said, "I have only been here for 5 days. That is a lot to think about." And again they gasp (a common reaction) because they think I am doing very well for only having been here 5 days.
Students are also exceptionally impressed when I know any Korean phrases, so I've been working to practice new ones on them so I can get the collective gasp and "How did you know that?" I know jing-jing-day-joo-mah, which means "Stop complaining," but I don't think I will ever have to use that on them.
The language barrier is very difficult. Always 5 or 6 students come up to me after class and try to ask a question, and sometimes we just stare at each other until someone comes up with a phrase the other will understand. I've also had to learn to talk slower and more clearly, especially without using too many figures of speech and the like that don't translate well. When they speak English, often their accents are hard for me to understand, so I will have to go to the board and have them talk me through spelling it. It's a challenging thing, for sure, but very exciting. The camaraderie among the students and teachers is wonderful. Their faces just light up when they say hello and can carry on a little conversation with you. I'm excited for Monday when we switch student groups and I will be able to get to know another 20 of the 60 students in the program.
And let me say, these are the cutest, most put together, well dressed college girls I've ever seen. I think I could take a lesson from them. Very stylish. Modest though. Tanktops are not okay, but lots of jewelry is good. I'm glad I brought mine or I would feel very plain next to them.
I'm very glad to be here for this. All I can say is it's like a wonderful disease, this contagious thing we all share in class.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Taking off shoes... and more
Speaking of this custom, on Friday night we went to a Korean barbeque restaurant where you remove your shoes and step up onto this raised platform and sit on the floor around a low table. Then you cook your own meat and veggies on a round grill plate set into the middle of the table. Oh so delicious marinated pork and beef, and I finally tried kimchi for the first time, which is essentially fermented spicy cabbage. I really quite like it. But I don't think I could handle eating it for breakfast as many people do.
Sunday was an interesting day. An American teacher named Rachel who has been in Korea for 4 years took me on a short hike on one of the hills near the campus. Then we stopped at the tennis courts on campus, where they were playing a tournament of a game I can't find out the name of, where essentially teams of 6 men face off on either side of the tennis court with a soccer ball going back and forth. Soccer rules, so no hands, but the objective seems more like volleyball, and the court is for tennis. Very interesting. After a few minutes, one of the officials came over and requested that we eat with them. They had us sit with the players and coaches and served us tons of Korean food. It was very suprising but quite the experience. We were a bit of a novelty for them, being the only foreigners at the tournament. They also gave us a common Korean gift: embroidered hand towels. Everyone wanted to meet us, so we stayed for a while before politely excusing ourselves because we could not possibly eat any more food. This is definitely the Korean hospitality and generosity I have heard about.
After this, Rachel took me to the saunas in the building with her gym. There are about 8 or so rooms of different temperatures, made from different materials in each (rock, tile, clay, etc). There is even a cold room, which is basically like a walk-in freezer. People spend hours here. Even the really little children are in the hottest rooms. We also went to the female bathhouse (yes, a communal nude experience for the women), which has different pools of different temperatures. I guess I got all my "Look, it's a foreigner!" done with in one swoop. So next time you are being stared at in a foreign country, imagine also being nude... Just walking down the street fully clothed can't possibly bother me now.
Coming next: teaching experiences! Which have been a little too wonderful for me to exactly articulate, but I will try.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Schmoozing around the world
Yesterday we were treated quite like visiting dignitaries on campus. Mr. Song, who I believe is the Coordinator for External Affairs for the university, picked us up at 9:30 and took us to breakfast at Dunkin' Donuts, which is huge in Korea. I've seen more here than in the U.S.; people love it. Then we took a campus tour, first with the head librarian. Then we stopped at the auto mechanic and performance testing department and were shown all the padlocked rooms with super expensive engines and cars, which was pretty neat. They have a partnership with BMW, who donates cars for the performance testing. Have to say there was a beautiful little silver two-door BMW that I wanted to pull some kind of Gone in 60 Seconds type stunt with and steal. Just like one of my favorite phrases... "Drive it like you stole it." Which really applies to any activity.
Anyways, getting back on track. Then we took a tour of the campus museum, which had an amazing collection of Chinese, Japanese, and Korean art pieces, pottery items, artifacts, etc., some dating back to the 15th century, which were donated by a lady who had these things stored up in her house. There was also an extensive collection of these wooden cake stamps that put patterns into the rice-based cakes they make. Then we met with the VPs of the International Office, who had quite the office for hosting foreign visitors. They even had a photographer shooting pictures of our meeting.
We took lunch in downtown Hayang at a little Italian cafe run by a Korean woman. The restaurants are tiny here, usually just a few tables. With 6 of us from the university, we just about took up the whole place. Delicious stuff. Forks though, so no chopstick practice yet. I also found out at lunch that the rooms we have are special *guest* rooms, not at all like the rooms students stay in. Very special, Mr. Song tells us.
Well ... better run to dinner. More later.
Korea Happy Morning Time
It’s about 7:20 am here—5:20 pm on Thursday back home—and that’s as late as my body will let me sleep, even after a heinous 29 hours straight of traveling (via plane, bus, train, and car) and very little sleep before and during that time.
I’ve had a few long flights before on the way to Europe, 9 or 10-hours, but those extra few hours that make it 14 were killer. I was trapped in the middle seat of a 3-seat row, with a heavy sleeper on the aisle, so I only got up twice, which I can tell you was not nearly enough to prevent an aching backside. However, I’ve got nothing but praises for Korean Air, which made it as pleasant as possible … and has the most fashionable flight attendant uniforms I’ve ever seen.
We’re here in Hayang, Daegu (which is like the county), South Korea. Last night as we waited at the train station for a staff member from the university to come pick us up, a Korean man approached us simply to practice his English. I guess this happens a lot. Many Koreans are taught English in school, but few of them get to practice it conversationally. The last thing he asked us before leaving to catch his train was, “Why are your suitcases so large?”—which is something I was asking myself after having to haul mine on and off all of the aforementioned modes of transportation.
Our rooms here at the university are nice. Nicer than a lot of hotels I’ve stayed in. Very clean and open and a lot larger than my dorm room as an undergrad, also it’s own bathroom, a small balcony, and I have the room all to myself. Although I am sleeping on some sort of pebble-filled pillow, I feel decently rested. Hopefully I can adjust to the extreme time change quickly.
I am thankful for having taken a trip prior to this, to the Dominican Republic, where I was an extreme minority and got stared at a lot. I think that was good preparation. I’m also trying to keep my loud American voice to a minimum on public transportation.
Two phrases I know so far:
Ahn-nyung-ha-se-yo = A standard greeting, equivalent to “How are you?” but literally “Have you eaten today?” or “Are you at peace?”
Gahm-sah-ham-ni-da = Thank you
I’m also working on sil-le-ham-ni-da (“Excuse me”) and jwe-song-ham-ni-da (“I am sorry”) for when my clumsy self is bumping into people, which makes me realize that I’m not so tactful about that at home because my standard “Excuse me” is an often barely audible sound—“Whoop.” I’m scared to admit that I think it’s a shortened form of “whoopsie daisy.”
Enough for now… I better go try to wrangle with that shower, which isn’t a “shower” as we think of it back home but a handheld sprayer, whose name is the “Da Da Seven,” and a bathroom floor that apparently has a drain in it. There may be a typhoon in my bathroom.